S1EP24 - How to Ask for What You Want in the Bedroom

Welcome back to Open Bedroom Doors — the show where we talk about real sex, real relationships, and the real stuff nobody taught you in health class. 😏🔥

In Episode 24, we’re bringing you a playful, practical, and powerful mix of sexy skills, consent education, and confidence-building — all in one episode.

🍽️ Sex Position Segment: Sex in the Kitchen
This week’s “sex position” segment is all about turning your kitchen into a playful, sensual space — without it having to become a full-blown adult movie set. 😉

I teach you how to use blindfolds and spices to explore sensation in a way that’s fun, flirty, and surprisingly intimate. We’re talking:
- Using smells like cinnamon and other spices for sensory play
- Guessing scents while blindfolded
- Teasing and flirting with anticipation
- Blindfold-feeding each other for connection and sensual fun

It’s a simple way to bring novelty into your relationship, even if you’re busy, stressed, or feeling disconnected.

🎙️Interview with Betty Martin
I sit down with the incredible Betty Martin, creator of the Wheel of Consent — and we go even deeper into what consent actually means in real-life intimacy.

This conversation is for you if you’ve ever wondered:
- Why do I say yes to things I don’t really want?
- Why do I freeze or go along with sex even when I’m not fully into it?
- How do I ask for what I want without guilt?
- How do I know if I’m giving, taking, allowing, or receiving?

Betty breaks down consent in a way that’s clear, compassionate, and honestly life-changing — whether you’re single, partnered, married, dating, monogamous, or exploring.

💛 Happy Ending Segment:
“How can I enjoy sex when I feel ugly, fat, or not attractive?”

This week’s audience question is one I hear constantly — and it hits deep.
If you’ve ever struggled with body image during sex, avoided intimacy because you didn’t feel “hot enough,” or felt like you had to look perfect to deserve pleasure… you are not alone.
In this segment, I talk about:
- What body shame does to arousal and desire
- How to stay present during intimacy
- What to do when you feel insecure in the bedroom
- Why confidence isn’t required for pleasure
- How to reconnect with your sensual self again

And yes… I answer this question in the Oval Office — because I can. 😄

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