Season 182 Episode 6607
S1 Ep15 - It All Belongs: Finding Meaning in Grief with Roy Smoot
In this profoundly moving episode of 'The Grief Grantor,' I am joined by Roy Smoot, author of the touching book, It All Belongs: Love, Loss, & Learning to Live Again. Roy shares the intimate journey of expressing gratitude for the life he shared with his beloved wife Judy and how this gratitude helped him navigate the grief of her transition while continuing to honor her legacy. Hailing from Ohio, Roy poetically describes grief and love as twins and dives into the transformative power of grief, which he likens to hibernation. He talks about thanking God for the pain and fondly remembers Judy as a passionate giver, reflecting on how full moons now bring smiles instead of sorrow. Roy is now remarried to June, a close friend of Judy, and he shares the beautiful story of how June fell in love with him, drawn by his dedication to honoring his promise to Judy. Roy candidly discusses his journey to loving again, taking life moment by moment, and the invaluable support he received from close friends and spiritual leaders. He takes us back to Judy’s transition day, describing it as a sacred, anointed moment filled with silence, holy presence, and a poignant farewell as he lay beside her, experiencing her final moments of freedom. Roy also opens up about the genesis of his book's title, which was inspired by Judy, and how the process of co-authoring with Melinda served as a tribute to Judy’s legacy. He shares insights into journaling as a therapeutic tool and reflects on the physical pain and loss he experienced following Judy's transition. In a heart-to-heart conversation, Roy emphasizes the importance of community in grief, shedding layers of pain, and learning to walk the journey of loss with others. This episode is a testament to the softening yet enduring nature of grief and the resilience of the human spirit in finding love and gratitude amidst loss. https://www.facebook.com/sparkpointpress #GriefGrantor #RoySmoot #JourneyThroughGrief #LoveAndLegacy #ItAllBelongs #GratitudeInGrief #HealingJourney #CommunityInGrief