Shame, Sex & Secrets: Why You Don’t Desire Your Partner Anymore - Danielle Harel & Celeste Hirschman

The Joel Evan Show

In this conversation, Joel Evan speaks with Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman, co-founders of the ⁠Somatica Institute, ⁠about their innovative approach to intimacy, sexuality, and relationship coaching. They discuss their personal journeys into this field, the common issues clients face, and the importance of communication and understanding shame in sexual relationships. The conversation also explores the healing potential of sexual experiences, the tools available for navigating trauma, and the significance of sexual fulfillment in overall well-being. They emphasize the learnability of intimacy skills and the diverse expressions of sexuality, while also providing insights into daily practices for maintaining connection and resources for sexual education. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Somatica and Its Founders 03:03 The Journey to Intimacy Coaching 05:58 Understanding Client Needs and Common Issues 08:56 The Importance of Communication in Relationships 11:58 Shame and Its Impact on Sexuality 15:01 Healing Trauma Through Sexuality 17:59 Tools for Overcoming Trauma in Relationships 21:07 Individual Needs in Sexual Fulfillment 23:48 Navigating Desire in Long-Term Relationships 24:24 Navigating Sexual Needs in Relationships 26:10 The Role of Communication in Intimacy 27:37 Understanding Touch and Sensation 30:00 The Impact of High Performance on Sexual Fulfillment 32:24 Exploring Different Types of Sexual Experiences 35:20 Unlocking Erotic Energy for Personal Growth 37:00 Daily Practices for Emotional and Physical Connection 39:34 Courses and Resources for Sexual Empowerment 42:04 Future Projects and Collaborations