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Season 106 Episode 8169

Avoid the Costly Pitfalls of Divorce Expert Tips from Divorce Attorney - Wendy Meadows

"In this conversation, Joel Evan interviews Wendy Meadows, a recovering divorce attorney and life coach, about the common causes of divorce and strategies for navigating the process. The main theme of the conversation is the breakdown of communication in relationships, which often leads to divorce. Wendy shares her experience of helping couples reverse their divorce decisions through improved communication. They also discuss the financial and emotional costs of divorce, the importance of conscious co-parenting, and the need for both sparkle (inspiration) and grit (perseverance) in achieving personal and professional goals. Wendy Meadows shares her experience of breaking out of a rut and finding new ways to spark joy and growth in her life. She emphasizes the importance of trying new things, building community, and pushing outside of one's comfort zone. Wendy discusses the concept of anchors, particularly in the context of a morning routine, and how they can help set the tone for the day. She also introduces the idea of the Pause Time Playbook, a tool for reverse engineering one's day and creating intentional moments. Wendy highlights the importance of choosing the right process and attorney in divorce cases, and the value of treating the other person with fairness and empathy. She shares examples of clients who successfully mediated their divorces by prioritizing peace and the well-being of their children. Wendy concludes by discussing her coaching work with lawyer moms and individuals seeking practical guidance and support. Takeaways ✅ Communication breakdown is the most common culprit that leads to divorce. ✅ Divorce can be financially and emotionally costly, with attorney fees often reaching hundreds of thousands of dollars. ✅ Conscious co-parenting is crucial for minimizing the impact of divorce on children. ✅ Sparkle (inspiration) and grit (perseverance) are both necessary for achieving personal and professional goals. Trying new things and building community can help break out of a rut and spark joy and growth in life. ✅ Anchors, such as a morning routine, can set the tone for the day and provide stability and focus. ✅ The Pause Time Playbook is a tool for reverse engineering the day and creating intentional moments. ✅ Treating the other person with fairness and empathy in divorce can lead to more positive outcomes. ✅ Wendy Meadows specializes in coaching lawyer moms and individuals seeking practical guidance and support. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 02:13 The Impact of Communication Breakdown 04:00 The Financial Costs of Divorce 06:25 Advice for Those Considering Divorce 11:00 Minimizing the Impact of Divorce on Children 13:19 Transitioning from Divorce Attorney to Life Coach 15:41 Sparkle and Grit: Finding Balance and Beating Burnout 22:49 Breaking Free from the Autopilot Cycle 25:47 Anchoring Your Day 28:45 Reverse Engineering Your Day 31:18 Choosing the Right Process in Divorce 41:47 Conscious Separation Chapters"

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