S1 E34 - When 'Your Best' Ain't Worth a Hill of Beans, Losing, Winning, and the Gut-Punch of Reality!

In this raw and unfiltered episode, hosts Dr. Clendenningand Michael Libercci dive deep into the gut-wrenching reality of when your best effort still falls short. Drawing from real-life experiences, particularly the emotional rollercoaster of youth sports, they explore the psychological and emotional impact of failure, and the hard-won lessons that come from it. Dr. Klendanning shares a series of poignant anecdotes involving his children's baseball tournaments, where despite their best efforts, they faced crushing defeats against superior teams. The discussion delves into the parental struggle of witnessing your children's setbacks, the agonizing drive times, the sleepless nights, and the chilling cold rain that accompanies the games. This leads to a broader exploration of the feeling of "running out of road," a sentiment that resonates with entrepreneurs and parents alike. The conversation tackles the limiting beliefs that arise from these experiences, such as "I'm not good enough" or "I'll never be good enough." However, the hosts emphasize that these moments are not about what's happening to you, but what's happening for you. They stress the importance of shifting perspective from victimhood to opportunity, focusing on the lessons learned rather than the immediate outcome. Key topics covered include: Parenting and Youth Sports: The emotional investment, the long drives, the cold weather, and the heartbreak of watching your children lose. Relevant search terms: youth sports, parenting, baseball tournaments, emotional resilience, sports psychology. Limiting Beliefs: The psychological impact of failure and the negative self-talk that can arise. Keywords: limiting beliefs, self-doubt, failure, mindset, psychology. Opportunity vs. Victimhood: Shifting perspective to find the lessons in setbacks. Keywords: personal growth, resilience, mindset shift, opportunity, adversity. Preparation and Effort: The importance of putting in the work and maximizing your potential. Keywords: preparation, work ethic, effort, dedication, performance. Winning and Losing: The value of both experiences and the lessons they provide. Keywords: winning, losing, competition, sportsmanship, life lessons. Role Modeling: The impact of parents' actions on their children's development. Keywords: role model, parenting, influence, behavior, character. Boardroom Battleground: Promotion of their new show, highlighting the transformative journeys of contestants and coaches. Keywords: reality TV, coaching, transformation, entrepreneurship, business competition. Total Disruption: driving traffic to the website. keywords: Total disruption, entrepreneur coaching, business growth. The hosts also discuss the importance of being in the right crowd, highlighting how the performance of others can influence your own confidence and success. They reference the movie "Miracle" as an example of overcoming seemingly insurmountable odds through determination and belief. The show concludes with a discussion on the evolving definition of "winning" as a parent, from celebrating milestones like graduating high school without teen pregnancy to cherishing moments of vulnerability and gratitude. They emphasize the ongoing commitment and work required in parenting, and the importance of demonstrating a strong work ethic and commitment to your children. Ultimately, this episode is a powerful reminder that failure is not the end, but an opportunity for growth and learning. It's a call to action to embrace the challenges, find the lessons, and keep moving forward.