Pleasure Is Your Birthright - From attorney to S*x and Intimacy Coach | Xanet Pailet | Hilary Burns | S6EP18

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Pleasure Is Your Birthright - From attorney to S*x and Intimacy Coach | Xanet Pailet | Hilary Burns | S6EP18

"Living an Orgasmic Life" is Xanet Pailet's bestselling book. If you are not happy with your sex life, I highly recommend it. It will shed light on so many things related to sex, enjoyment, pleasure, and relationships. Xanet was in a sex-less marriage until around the age of 50.  Sex was painful and avoided.

So how did she become a sex and intimacy coach? Her story is incredible.  “Tantra Man” just appeared and asked if he could "goddess worship" her. Literally, it started opening Xanet up sexually. She was able to relax, trust and feel safe enough to start healing her trauma.

If you've ever heard of "vaginismus," you owe it to yourself to listen to Xanet.   She was able to heal this painful condition by healing what was causing her anxiety, tension, and the need to protect herself.  Doctors could not help her with traditional medicine.  

Listen to our fascinating conversation if you are curious to know how to have more sexual pleasure, orgasms, and creativity in your life. This will rock your world.

Xanet Pailet is a former healthcare attorney turned nationally recognized sex and intimacy educator, coach, and trauma practitioner. She’s the bestselling author of Living an Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure and the founder of Passionate Intimacy Retreats. Her next book, The Sex and Intimacy Repair Kit, will be published in March 2026 by Books That Save Lives.

Xanet helps individuals and couples heal shame, reclaim desire, and reawaken intimacy. Her personal transformation from attorney to healer aligns beautifully with your show’s heartfelt focus on inspiring stories and authentic conversations that reveal the extraordinary within the human experience.


Connect with Xanet Pailet at:
Website: passionateintimacyretreats.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/passionateintimacyretreats/ 
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xanetpop/ 
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thepowerofpleasure8132 
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